If you fall in love then it will be your desire to continue the intimacy relationship for ever. You have to do a lot to have a healthy relationship with your partner.
Some of the important steps which bring your partner closer and closer are:
1) If your partner loses temper for any reason then as a soul mate you must be calm and relaxed fully. Sharing relationship for the whole life is also a team work. If both the partners will lose the temper then the relationship will come to an end.
2) Dissatisfaction with the partner is due to lack of intimacy. Dating Partners usually when become life partner get dissatisfied with their partner at many issues. If both of you will have common interest then this will help you to spend your life together and that too happily. So try to have common interest as it will increase your intimacy.
3) If both the partners have similar belief than it will help you to lead a happy life. But it is said that love addiction may lead you to ignore this point initially but later on due to different beliefs in some matter you will find yourself in a difficult position to continue your relationship.
4) No one is perfect in this world. It is a dream of every person to have a perfect date. It is the desire of the people that your partner should be such that he or she may have the capabilities to bear your mistakes and have the habit to tolerate any awkward situation also.
5) Partners having the same level of intellectual may have a good relationship for the whole life. So you should try to make intimacy relationship with the partner having same intellectual level.
6) It is necessary for continuing relationship for longer period that you should love your partner by heart and for ever. Marry to those only to whom you consider to be fit otherwise later on your relationship will end with lots of unhappiness.
7) If you are not interested with your partner and always remain unconvinced then he or she is not your perfect soul mate. You should find your perfect partner.